The Questions That Get You Past How Was Your Day
Talk About More Than Just Your Day
You love each other, and yet somehow the talking has shrunk to logistics, the kids, what is
This free guide gives you open ended questions that help you and your partner talk about the things that actually matter. Not the logistics. The bigger questions about what you each want, what has changed and what you are hoping for.
Use them on a walk, in the car, or over dinner once the kids are down. There is no script to get right and no pressure to have a deep conversation every night. You pick a question and see where it goes.
What's Inside
More than 50 open ended questions across life, work, family, dreams and the future
Prompts that work whether you have been together two years or twenty
A simple way to reconnect when you feel more like flatmates than partners
A Bit About Me
I built this mini course because there are good therapists out there doing couples work without the frameworks they need, and it’s costing the couples who sit across from them. I’ve been on the receiving end of bad couples therapy. I’ve also been on the receiving end of really great couples therapy. The difference wasn’t empathy or intelligence. It was training.
I also host two podcasts, This Complex Life and The Therapist Couch, if you want a sense of how I think about this work before you give me your email.
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Open ended questions
Before you go If this resonates, there are different ways people take the next step. Some want something structured they can work through on their own. Some realise they need support to slow things down and repair. For now, this is simply a place to pause and ask a better question.
What is this really about?