It’s been a couple of months since I lost my best friend, my dog of 15 years, Walter. [Even writing this now brings me to tears.] As someone who has a big heart, I was inspired by a close friend of mine who loves to foster cats, and a couple of people I follow...
Listen You have probably had some version of this argument. One of you thinks the other spends too much, or saves too obsessively, or just does not take it seriously enough. You have had it so many times you could almost script the other person’s lines. What most...
Listen Sex and disability. Two words that rarely get discussed together, and almost never with the honesty they deserve. Most conversations about disability focus on independence, mobility, and employment. Pleasure, desire, and intimacy get left out almost entirely,...
Listen The psychology of the ick and what it says about you The ick in dating is that moment where someone does something completely normal and your whole body just says no. Maybe it was the way they chewed or a joke that missed or something you cannot even put into...
Many couples believe that a good relationship means there is no conflict. This is one of the biggest myths, conflict is normal and healthy. It doesn’t mean you get free license to do and say what ever you like, there are some ‘rules’. One of the books I often...