Healthy Couples Fight Too

Many couples believe that a good relationship means there is no conflict. This is one of the biggest myths, conflict is normal and healthy. It doesn’t mean you get free license to do and say what ever you like, there are some ‘rules’.  One of the books I often...

How to Support Someone Grieving the Loss of a Pet

Losing your dog can feel as profound as losing a loved one. For some, their four-legged companion can be the only family they have. The bond we share with our pets is unique, unconditional, uncomplicated, and part of our daily lives. When that presence is suddenly...

Is Your Wounded Child Ruining Your Relationship?

Listen The part of you that reacts faster than you think There’s something that shows up in almost every relationship conflict. It’s not really about the dishes. Or the unanswered text. Or the tone that felt off. Often it’s the younger version of you reacting before...

Attachment Styles in Conflict: Breaking the Cycle

Listen Have you ever had an argument with your partner that seemed to come out of nowhere? One minute you are talking about weekend plans. The next, one person is in tears and the other is sitting in silence with their arms crossed. Later you look back and wonder,...

Why Conflict Feels So Personal in Relationships

When I first meet a couple, one of the things that stands out most is how they are sitting in the waiting room. Before we have even started talking about why they are here, that moment already tells me a lot. When I open my door, if I see two people sitting with...