Many couples arrive in therapy unsure whether they want to stay together, change the relationship, or separate. Ambivalence can create paralysis, heightened conflict, or disengagement, leaving therapists unsure how to proceed without pushing for an outcome. This training supports clinicians to work ethically and effectively with mixed commitment, helping couples clarify their position while maintaining safety, respect, and structure.

What you will learn

• How ambivalence shows up in couples therapy
• The difference between individual uncertainty and relational stalemate
• How mixed commitment impacts engagement and progress in therapy
• How to work with pressure to decide too quickly
• How to support clarity without steering the outcome
• How to assess readiness for repair, pause, or separation

What is included

• Case examples illustrating different forms of ambivalence
• Frameworks to structure sessions when commitment is unclear
• Tools to support values clarification and decision making
• Guidance on pacing and boundaries in ambivalence work

Who is it for

Especially helpful for clinicians working with couples where one or both partners are unsure about continuing the relationship or feel stuck between staying and leaving.

Level of experience

Suitable for early career and experienced clinicians. Previous training in couples therapy is highly recommended.

This training is not a certification program or a replacement for supervision. It focuses on core clinical understanding and practical tools rather than advanced modality specific training.

Length

3 hours